An odd question …. do you trust yourself?
Do you trust yourself to make healthy, loving and affirming decisions for yourself? We do trust ourselves to make safe and conscientious decisions and choices for our loved ones; why is it so strange to think about trusting ourselves about ourselves? We have all made choices that we look back on and think: the outcome would have been better if i had chosen differently. Somewhere along the line we agreed with a cultural or social concept out of fear, physical or fear of embarrassment, it triggered a stress response and we learned not to trust ourselves. Even worse, we believed we were not worthy of loving approval.
We know in relationships trust is vital. Trust is a core element of a healthy relationship with yourself as as well as anyone else in fact, it is the foundation for how deeply and wholly you are able to trust other people. We need to select and develop a support group te allows us space to idendity the lies we accepted that we molded these habits of distrust around.
We are powerful, wise intuitive and worthy! We deserve tp be in a relationship where we love and are loved …. and it starts with ourselves.
Our journey back into ourselves … back to a place where we try to impress no one, have no fear of judgement is a life long process. The reality of loving the woman of our soul is going to take work, as all relationships do. the work of our own healing journey and process is so worthwhile and will equip us to help other sisters on their healing journey.
Let’s begin by looking at our habits. The habits that distract us from our unmet emotional needs and desires. Our cravings point to the emotional source and once we identify them we can begin to change them. Trust yourself to change out old habits of self sabotage for creative alternatives building healthy patterns. You are worthy of feeling good, looking good and doing good! This is your birthright: self love and s
elf trust.
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